There are more than 70 million fathers in the United States, and Sunday, June 17 is their day this year: the third Sunday in June. Economists estimate that Americans spend more than $1 billion each year on Father’s Day gifts.
Mother’s Day came into being first. Then, much later on, came Father’s Day. For more information about Mother’s Day, click here. Or here. Or here.
There are two stories of how, why, and when the first Father’s Day was celebrated:
- The first Father’s Day was celebrated in Washington state on June 19, 1910. Sonora Smart Dodd, one of six children raised by a widower, was listening to a Mother’s Day sermon at church in 1909 when she thought of the idea of a day to celebrate fathers. She felt mothers were getting all the attention with their special day.
- The other story took place in Fairmont, West Virginia, on July 5, 1908 when Grace Golden Clayton suggested to the minister of the local Methodist church that they hold services to celebrate fathers after a deadly mine explosion killed 361 men.
The idea of a Father’s Day did not meet with same enthusiasm as Mother’s Day. As one florist said, “fathers haven’t the same sentimental appeal that mothers have.”
And it did take a while for Father’s Day to come into its own. While Father’s Day was celebrated in communities across the country, it still wasn’t a national celebration.
In 1916, President Wilson marked the day by using telegraph signals in Washington D.C. to unfurl a flag in Spokane.
William Jennings Bryant was one of its staunchest proponents. And in 1924 President Calvin Coolidge recommended that Father’s Day become a national holiday.
But no official action was taken.
In 1966 Lyndon B. Johnson,with an executive order, designated the third Sunday in June as the official day to celebrate Father’s Day. Finally, in 1972, during the Nixon administration, Father’s Day was officially recognized as a national holiday.
Apparently, some men still aren’t down with Father’s Day. As one historian writes, they “scoffed at the holiday’s sentimental attempts to domesticate manliness with flowers and gift-giving . . . often paid for by the father himself.”
During the 1920s a movement arose to combine Mother’s Day and Father’s Day into a single Day, Parent’s Day. But then came the Great Depression, and struggling businesses wanted the sales that both separate holidays could bring them. When World War II started, advertisers argued that Father’s Day was a good way to honor our troops and support the war effort.
In some countries, particularly in Europe and Latin America, fathers are honored on St. Joseph’s Day, a traditional Catholic holiday on March 19.
Here are some other countries’ days for celebrating fathers:
- March 19– Bolivia, Honduras, Italy, Lichtenstein, Portugal, Spain
- May 8– South Korea
- Second Sunday in June– Austria, Ecuador, Belgium
- Third Sunday in June– Antigua, Bahamas, Bangladesh, Bulgaria, Canada, Chile, Columbia, Costa Rica, Cuba, Cyprus, Czech Republic, France, Greece, Guyana, Hong Kong, India, Ireland, Jamaica, Japan, Malaysia, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Netherlands, Pakistan, Panama, Paraguay, Peru, Philippines, Puerto Rico, Saint Vincent, Singapore, Slovakia, South Africa, Sri Lanka, Switzerland, Trinidad, Turkey, United Kingdom, United States, Venezuela, Zimbabwe
- June 23– Nicaragua, Poland, Uganda
- Second Sunday in July– Uruguay
- Last Sunday in July– Dominican Republic
- Second Sunday in August– Brazil
- August 8– Taiwan, China
- August 24– Argentina
- First Sunday in September– Australia, New Zealand
- New Moon of September– Nepal
- First Sunday in October– Luxembourg
- Second Sunday in November– Estonia, Finland, Norway, Sweden
- December 5– Thailand
Enjoy these quotes about fathers:
It doesn’t matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was. Anne Sexton
I wasn’t anything special as a father. But I loved them and they knew it. Sammy Davis, Jr.
Until you have a son of your own… you will never know the joy, the love beyond feeling that resonates in the heart of a father as he looks upon his son. Kent Nerburn
He who does not teach his son his duties is equally guilty with the son who neglects them. Confucius
One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters. George Herbert
Anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad, and that’s why I call you dad, because you are so special to me. You taught me the game and you taught me how to play it right. Wade Boggs
Being a father has been, without a doubt, my greatest source of achievement, pride and inspiration. Fatherhood has taught me about unconditional love, reinforced the importance of giving back and taught me how to be a better person. Naveen Jain
It is a wise father that knows his own child. William Shakespeare
I have a Father’s Day every day. Dennis Banks
Thank you so much to the following websites. Check them out for more information!
A Brief History of Father’s Day
Alejandra Beatriz González says
Hi, there, Arlene!
Just a correction. In Argentina, we also celebrate Father’s Day on the third Sunday in June, not in August!
Arlene Miller says
Thank you for the correction. I guess my source was wrong! Sorry about that!
haverwench says
Just wanted to alert you to a typo: It’s William Jennings Bryan, not Bryant.
Arlene Miller says
Thank you. Not to make excuses — I should have checked — but I cut and paste from the quotation site. Ooops!
Thonie Hevron says
A fun post, Arlene!
Arlene Miller says
Thanks, Thonie!
GLBurgett says
A loving missive, Arlene.
And a special day here. I was born a twin on Father’s Day in 1938, and tomorrow my twin and I will celebrate our 80th birthday! He is so damn lucky!
Gordon Burgett
Arlene Miller says
Gordon – Happy Birthday to you and your twin! He is lucky!